Have I permanently damaged myself? :( (1 Viewer)

[Big Dazza!]

Hi guys, I'm Darell, I'm doing my HSC this year down in the Shoal Bay region. Anyway I like this site it's good for resources & thought I'd join the forums.

I have a question for the guys. It's a bit embarassing and I'd rather ask you guys first before I go and see a Dr or something, as I think there's something wrong.

To get through school stresses and everything, I 'got myself off' a fair bit, like, almost once a night. I'm not sure whether or not this is normal or abnormal - I haven't really asked anyone lol - but I figured it wasn't doing any harm. It was then that I heard that you're sposed to use some sort of lube when you're doing it, that I became concerned. I was 'punishing the percy' so to speak, 'dry' every night and I'm not sure whether or not that would have done any damage. I find it embarassing to ask a doctor, I'm sure you could understand why.

I was at a party during the summer and was fairly drunk and got together with this chick and went back to the bedroom and I couldn't get it up fully - and when I could and we were going at it, it didn't feel good at all - couldnt climax - it was like I had desensitised myself or something. That's the only time I've had sex - if it even counts - so I'm not sure whether or not it was the alcohol or not but it definitely didn't feel as good as it did with me going solo.

I've since tried wanking with lube and it takes way way longer for me to eventually orgasm and doesn't really feel as good.


I'm sorry for the long post, it's just that I'm quite concerned and don't want to have a broken dick or anything, and I want to be able to enjoy sex.


Should I go to a Dr about it? Is this normal and I'm worrying too much about it? I really just don't know what to do and actually talking to a doctor about it face to face is the last thing I want to do.

Anyway any advice would be appreciated greatly as it's really getting to my self esteem.


Thanks and sorry about the huge read,

Daz

 

[Nietzsche]

Watch porn. Makes it easier.

 

[EATAPIE]

yeah man, jacking off breaks your dick.
see a doctor.

 

[Big Dazza!]

yeah man, jacking off breaks your dick.
see a doctor.

I've since read on another forum:

"Vigorous masturbation can dull sensitivity. I suggest that in addition to limiting the frequency of your, er, self-love, be gentle. Very gentle. Don't be frustrated if you don't orgasm at first; eventually your body will become accustomed to the subtler stimulation.

Also, don't use the same method/movement/pressure every time since this can train your body into being able to reach orgasm only the one way."

Pretty much sounds like me.

Is this true? I can't believe it, I don't know how to fix it now. Why would they say masturbation can't hurt you and leave this tiny part out?

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

its all in the mind baby!

 

[iamsickofyear12]

The reason you couldn't orgasm is because you were drunk.

 

[sja]

Hey dude I know exactly what you mean. I was completely desensitized with porn for a while and I don't know why. But here's some things to cure it and yes they 100% fixed me;

1. Go to the gym and get fit. Do running, do cardio, do weights. Just go to the gym and work your whole body. Make sure you work your quad's as well (and do some squats) because the more blood your muscles can handle at your legs, the more blood your dick will get as you flex them. I've been going about a month now and I've toned up so much but more importantly I get horny 20 times more easily now.

2. If you're really desperate after that, buy Zinc tablets from the Chemist. They are just normal tablets. Zinc increases your sperm count and is a natural viagra. But you must do it like this; Take it every day for a month, then miss out the next month, then take it the next month after that. If you took it every day for months then your body will be dependent on it and your immune system will rely on it (very dangerous).

The first time I took zinc was for a whole week, I had to abstain from wanking (extremely hard) for 7 days. Anyway when I finally blew I did like 9 blows and that pretty much did it for me.

 

[AntiHyper]

If you have a long enough penis so that your hand wont have to rub the head all the time it should be ok to have it dry.

But yeh.. use some form of lubefor the whole thing, like spit is good enough i've heard.

 

[wanton-wonton]

I was at a party during the summer and was fairly drunk and got together with this chick and went back to the bedroom and I couldn't get it up fully - and when I could and we were going at it, it didn't feel good at all - couldnt climax - it was like I had desensitised myself or something. That's the only time I've had sex - if it even counts - so I'm not sure whether or not it was the alcohol or not but it definitely didn't feel as good as it did with me going solo.

In this case, it's most definitely the efects of alcohol.

I've since tried wanking with lube and it takes way way longer for me to eventually orgasm and doesn't really feel as good.

If it's still like that even when you're sober..maybe you should see a doctor.

 

[Oddy Nocki]

To get through school stresses and everything, I 'got myself off' a fair bit, like, almost once a night. I'm not sure whether or not this is normal or abnormal - I haven't really asked anyone lol - but I figured it wasn't doing any harm. It was then that I heard that you're sposed to use some sort of lube when you're doing it, that I became concerned. I was 'punishing the percy' so to speak, 'dry' every night and I'm not sure whether or not that would have done any damage. I find it embarassing to ask a doctor, I'm sure you could understand why.


I've since tried wanking with lube and it takes way way longer for me to eventually orgasm and doesn't really feel as good.


I'm sorry for the long post, it's just that I'm quite concerned and don't want to have a broken dick or anything, and I want to be able to enjoy sex.

Hey Daz, what you are experiencing is quite normal. Booze effects your ability to mantain an errection also know as Whiskey Dick. Everyone has had this happen to them at one time or another. I suggest to whacking it everyday this will lead to a diminshment of supply so to speak. Try once or twice a week.

Hmm... Reading your post again I see you said didn't enjoy as much as just whacking it. This (without going into to much detail) means you would enjoy cock and ball torture or mutilation, i.e piercings and scarification, bashing it with a hammer. To find out more about said subject just google it.

Hope that helped

Oddy Nocki. (Your helpful internet friend)

 

[Casmira]

if you find doing it vigiriously is bad just hold it off to once a week so whenever you go for it, you let it out like a firehose

 

[azzie]

or maybe you just got drunk and couldnt get it up

 

[sykes06]

yea man... jackin off, specially without lube is bad news. permament damage is not all that unusual. i knew a guy that really fucked himself up pretty hardcore in the same way. in fact, his dick went purple and fell off. go see a doc asap if you like your dick on your body instead of in a jar.

 

[Big Dazza!]

thanks to all the replies

yea man... jackin off, specially without lube is bad news. permament damage is not all that unusual. i knew a guy that really fucked himself up pretty hardcore in the same way. in fact, his dick went purple and fell off. go see a doc asap if you like your dick on your body instead of in a jar.

i dont think your dick can fall off dude. if that was true they definitely wouldnt say masturbation isnt harmful

It's probably a drunk thing, but you've probably desensitised it too much.

is there any way of un-desensitising it?

 

[Skeeta]

i'm with everyone else, i'd put it down to being drunk

and nerves aswell, if it was your first time then you were probably nervous aswell, if she was also drunk (and you didnt use lube) she probably wasnt wet enough for it to be pleasureable enough for either of u

 

[Bookie]

I've been jacking off for 5 years without lube.

You had drunken attempted sex. get over it

 

[vodkacrumble]

oh dear, watch out before this happens to your little peeny


(fyi - this is peyronie's disease, which is "characterised by the formation of hardened tissue (fibrosis) in the penis that causes pain, curvature, and distortion, usually during erection". you will not get this from wanking too much. there is no such thing and wanking too much. but i <3 my medical dictionary, so many freaky photos)


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[withoutaface]

1. It's hard to orgasm when drunk.
2. It's hard to orgasm with a condom on.
3. If you're uncircumcised lube is completely unnecessary.

 

[Skeeta]

oh dear, watch out before this happens to your little peeny


(fyi - this is peyronie's disease, which is "characterised by the formation of hardened tissue (fibrosis) in the penis that causes pain, curvature, and distortion, usually during erection". you will not get this from wanking too much. there is no such thing and wanking too much. but i <3 my medical dictionary, so many freaky photos)

i will never let anyone complain about a bent dick again

 

[+Po1ntDeXt3r+]

oh dear, watch out before this happens to your little peeny


(fyi - this is peyronie's disease, which is "characterised by the formation of hardened tissue (fibrosis) in the penis that causes pain, curvature, and distortion, usually during erection". you will not get this from wanking too much. there is no such thing and wanking too much. but i <3 my medical dictionary, so many freaky photos)

i c ure peyronie's disease and raise u a penile trauma

yeah alcohol.. messes erections up.. and if u want better masturbation?... stop playing with it for a little while..


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