Fooling around (1 Viewer)

[Panka]

my friend is fooling around with this guy and he is taking advantage of her. she tells me wat happens and then gets upset because he doesn't call. i don't know what advice i should give her. Can u help me?

 

[spin spin sugar]

tell her the truth

 

[iamsickofyear12]

You might try telling her that he is taking advantage of her?

 

[_Amie_]

She probably won't like what you're saying, but you need to sit down with her and say that you are concerned, you don't want to see her hurt, and that this guy is using her. Make her realise what he's doing...but don't nag her about it, just a discussion about it might help. Tell her how you feel, and that you want to help her, if she continues with this guy, she will be hurt and that you, as her friend, don't want that to happen.
She'll probably overreact, as girls in that situation tend to do, because she'll probably secretly realise that you are right, but doesn't want to admit it. But don't just stand by and let it happen...you need to talk to her.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

Chain her up so she can't see him. She will thank you later.

 

[bubz :D]

my friend is fooling around with this guy and he is taking advantage of her. she tells me wat happens and then gets upset because he doesn't call. i don't know what advice i should give her. Can u help me?

ask her if they'd actually made it clear what their status was from the beginning. a lot of girls get involved with guys thinking they want a relationship, when the guy really just wants a fuck buddy if your friend already knew this but went ahead with it anyway (when she obviously has feelings for him), then it's kinda her own fault :\ it's best to tell her how you feel, the truth isn't always the nicest thing to hear but it's the only thing she SHOULD hear from a friend, especially concerning things like this

 

[SashatheMan]

why the fuck does she want him to call if he took "advantage" of her? if he did that shouldnt she want no contact with him. or does she want him to finish the job and rape her completely.

 

[sped_kid01]

i agree with bubz, make sureshes knows how she stands with him

if shes cool with jus being fuck buddys, then awesome, but if she cant handle that, and wants something more, then she should leave and find someone else, esp. if she cant cope when he doesnt call her

 

[Atticus.]

give her a mirror and tell her to take a long hard look at herself... there is a reason why the feminist movement happened... hmmm if only you knew the number of germaine greer... shed have some fantastic advice for your friend...

 

[my sharona]

Kick his ass till he leaves her alone.

 

[mmm_sofay]

take your friend out and get her drunk.
then tell her what you think of her and the situation she has gotten herself in.
if she is drunk enough, she wont remember any of it.
then tell her she pashed a really hot bloke and she will forget about the bloke taking advantage of her.

 

[Beckiki_S]

Its likely that she KNOWS all that and is still letting it happen because its her one way to get close to him... so maybe giving her advice wont help. So just stick by her and be her friend cause she'll need you. Thats my experience anyway.

 

[Original_Angel]

my friend is fooling around with this guy and he is taking advantage of her. she tells me wat happens and then gets upset because he doesn't call. i don't know what advice i should give her. Can u help me?

hmm - just stick by her, and tell her that he's no good for her [though she wont wanna hear it]

 

[Collin]

Is is just me or is your friend an idiot.. I mean you claim that she gets upset afterwards, well perhaps this wouldn't happen if she didn't fool around in the first place.

 

[funniboi]

foolin' around means she's just playin with him, and not takin it serious
so why should he take it seriously if she doesn't take it seriously?

 

[jumb]

my friend is fooling around with this guy and he is taking advantage of her. she tells me wat happens and then gets upset because he doesn't call. i don't know what advice i should give her. Can u help me?

Join in. You might finally get some action that way.

 

[Mini]

my friend is fooling around with this guy and he is taking advantage of her. she tells me wat happens and then gets upset because he doesn't call. i don't know what advice i should give her. Can u help me?

i think it depends what they've been doing... if they've just been 'fooling around' and not really talking or getting to know each other then she can't really expect too much outside attention from him, unfortunately.

if they know each other well and have been in social situations and stuff together and she's still being treated like that, then its time to intervene

 

[alex_c86]

give her a mirror and tell her to take a long hard look at herself... there is a reason why the feminist movement happened... hmmm if only you knew the number of germaine greer... shed have some fantastic advice for your friend...

lol germaine greer lives next door to our holiday house