Conc sulfuric is used for dehydration, dilute is used for any reactions in which it purely acts as a catalyst.
As for the difference between phosphoric and sulfuric acids in terms of their catalysing properties for the hydration reaction, there's not much difference. They are both required to protonate to form H+ ions which will add to the ethene double bond, so theres a good chance that the stronger acid (highest Ka) would be the better catalyst. But as both of them are strong acids (Ka -> infinity), they are likely to have very similar catalysing properties for this reaction.