"Each too their own"
If people want to be confident...let them...if people dont want to be confident...be okay with that. Everyone controls their feelings, people handle pressure in different manners...It could be said that the initial person who wrote the comment is arrogant in not letting...
It really doesnt matter if the father was infected or not, because regardless he passes down the Y chromosome...therefore they didnt have to specify in order to assume whether the child is affect. All the power was held in the hands of Maria.