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lol It depends on the guy. If he's like this poster, then no, but he DEFINITELY has the right to say you can't, if he's not comfortable with it.

I'm sorry to hear that :(...in defence of guys though, they're more likely to trample right over your feelings, but a girl is more likely to use your feelings to manipulate you :mad:

Swallowing is a "for the guy" thing usually. Guys tend to like it and it's not so bad, especially once you're used to it.

True. I personally "give" a lot and never "receive". That's just not the sort of thing I'm mainly interested in getting for myself.

I would; I don't really know how I would make myself believe in something, but I would try. I definitely wouldn't object to becoming a member of the religion in a formal sense.

Being married is great. It makes a big difference to make things official and everything, sort of adds a finality to things.

Last year, on my wedding night :)

Actually I kind of agree with this...the statement it refers to could be summed up as "I like guys that get off on licking my boots".

I've heard that anecdote before but I'm suspicious of it, as a) I've heard it in a number of different versions, which firstly, reduces the credibility of each, and secondly, it seems more believable in some other contexts. eg. one version has it that this law was made in Anglo-Saxon times and...

Besides, this discussion started by a mention of "old-fashioned guys"; this refers to a certain type of guy in the present who conforms to a certain ideal from the past. It's irrelevant whether or not this ideal was actually realized in broader society in past times, "old-fashioned" is just a...

How many? What evidence is there of whether or not these were representative of the wider population? How much disparity is there between the percentage of diaries which contain this type of info and the extent to which this stuff is known to happen today? The first two questions are...

If none of it was reported or spoken of, then we wouldn't know about it now....there's no evidence that it was much more prevalent then than it is now.

What exactly do you mean by "compliant"?

Unless you're talking about like the Middle Ages, that's not true, and men who hit their wives have never been considered gentlemen, at least not within the last 500 years or so lol.

My parents wouldn't have been happy if I had been "active" before I was married and they found out about it :eek:

Seems to me that whoever's making you choose is the bad apple...

Hey, everyone has to be new sometime or another :p. Anyway, first kiss was when I was engaged, and then nothing more than that until I was married.

I chose the options for when I was first getting involved with my now-husband...I was a virgin, and I wanted a virgin. It's just more special that way.