I disagree; that's how people remain lost and confused. They do stupid and hurtful things as a result.
Look, i've spent my time in the wilderness, i've wandered the desert and I know the isolation of having no foundation in your life other than yourself. But having reached the fertile mountain, I can state my beliefs with confidence and joy. It is true freedom and I hope that you will feast on it one day. In the meantime, I wouldnt insist that you do anything and, like I said in the thread, I dont push my internet views in real life because as a Christian love must be the basis of all our actions, for God is love.