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kcqn93

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Shadowdude said:
He's a guy. He has hormones raging in his body. It's very important to him. <_<
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To be honest, I am not exactly physically attracted to her. But I want to date her and spend time with her as a couple...

The Derivative said:
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I've never felt that way before about anyone...
But I guess it would suck
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Think of it as a function approaching its asymptote... keeps getting closer however they will never meet.
 
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So you sound like you don't want to let go for the fear that something COULD develop? So maybe just don't take an active role in pursuing these emotions. Let the friendship flow, let her control the pace, because you seem to be quite a bit ahead of her. Maybe it's best to simply, do nothing?
 
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kcqn93 said:
To be honest, I am not exactly physically attracted to her. But I want to date her and spend time with her as a couple...
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I know how you feel.

Things like having lunch together in some cafe, taking walks in the park and prattling away about anything and everything, and watching TV together while in some sort of snuggling position - correct?
 
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Shadowdude said:
I know how you feel.

Things like having lunch together in some cafe, taking walks in the park and prattling away about anything and everything, and watching TV together while in some sort of snuggling position - correct?
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Correct.
 
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kcqn93 said:
To be honest, I am not exactly physically attracted to her. But I want to date her and spend time with her as a couple...



Think of it as a function approaching its asymptote... keeps getting closer and however will they never meet.
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Thats so heartbreakingly evocative... if she is mathematically minded you shuld tell her this
 
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Haha, since everyone giving advice seems to be male, here's a female perspective:
If you really like her, you shouldn't go out of your way to ignore her.
If she's doing special things for you like getting you subway, then obviously you're not JUST a friend, or at least she considers you a really good friend

So keep being good friends, or maybe even best friends, and maybe the more she gets to know you and trust you, she will fall for you and want to be with you.
If you're really keen for it to happen, then just wait and see how it will turn out. If you've already told her you like her and it hasn't been super awkward afterwards, then obviously she isn't completely repulsed and trying to stay away.
 
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Hermes1 said:
Thats so heartbreakingly evocative... if she is mathematically minded you shuld tell her this
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She does Arts. Not much of a maths person...

But I have once told her that she was the constant term to my equation and I never want to differentiate... :\
 
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michaeljennings said:
LOL cant believe no one has brought this up yet. Maybe the reason she doesnt wanna date you is because shes not attracted to you physicallly
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But he said she wasn't good looking either.
Average looking people date average looking people, that's how the world works
 
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kcqn93 said:
She does Arts. Not much of a maths person...

But I have once told her that she was the constant term to my equation and I never want to differentiate... :\
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You what... okay, that's probably what tipped her over the line. Maths pick up lines are for the lulz only NOT FOR ACTUAL USE <_<

tambam said:
But he said she wasn't good looking either.
Average looking people date average looking people, that's how the world works
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Ever heard of punching above your weight?

kcqn93 said:
I'd rather not.

But I do have insecurities that this might be the case. She hangs out extremely fit tae kwon do dudes...
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Take tae kwon do, maybe that's what she likes. But don't because she's already made her mind up about you.
 
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