What do you look for in the opposite sex? (3 Viewers)

[HalcyonSky]

totally boring to have someone exactly the same as you!

agreed, people who are way different but somehow gel perfectly with you are much more attractive

 

[scaredytiger]

From previous fellows I have dated, there seems to be a pattern consisting of:

- quiet confidence
- intelligence
- sardonic wit
- tastes in rock/metal/alt music, and comedy/action/horror movies
- a proper appreciation of irony
- compassion
- videogames

and other stuff.

 

[scaredytiger]

omg dats totally crazy!


so you're looking for someone who is the opposite to you?

bahaha.

 

[Omie Jay]

From previous fellows I have dated, there seems to be a pattern consisting of:

- quiet confidence
- intelligence
- sardonic wit
- tastes in rock/metal/alt music, and comedy/action/horror movies
- a proper appreciation of irony
- compassion
- videogames

and other stuff.

thats pretty much me.

maybe minus the first point..

 

[staticsiscool]

obvious lack of consciousness

 

[ninetypercent]

- Interesting
- Funny
- Intelligent
- Alright looking
- NICE!!! and CARING!

 

[Uncle]

- Interesting
- Funny
- Intelligent
- Alright looking
- NICE!!! and CARING!

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90% unrealistic expectations

 

[scaredytiger]

thats pretty much me.

maybe minus the first point..

you also definitely miss the second and third points. and probably the fifth.

 

[Omie Jay]

way to put me down

 

[Utahraptor]

breasts and a vagina

 

[wixxy2348]

She's gotta have boobz.
Boobz is what I want in the opposite sex, guise.

 

[partygal92]

Um what are you guys talking about

I would prefer a guy who isn't afraid to show his affection for me in public and who loves me like i love him

 

[mraowbear]

omg i want a sweet, funny guy. you know, someone who will spoil me.

but like... someone i want to spoil too!
and he has to be attractive... like really attractive!

 

[Omie Jay]

^ superficial

 

[mraowbear]

no, it's just that likee... i've dated guys purely on their personality
and it doesn't work. it just doesn't

they get really into me and i can't reciprocate

 

[staticsiscool]

cos you're so hot and shit

 

[Tulipa]

no, it's just that likee... i've dated guys purely on their personality
and it doesn't work. it just doesn't

they get really into me and i can't reciprocate

Wow.

So if they were boring as batshit but stupidly attractive, you'd want to date them?

God. How would that be fun?

 

[Omie Jay]

no, it's just that likee... i've dated guys purely on their personality
and it doesn't work. it just doesn't

they get really into me and i can't reciprocate

try being less superficial

 

[mraowbear]

cos you're so hot and shit

i dont know? it's not even that they have to be the "hot guy".. i just want someone i find attractive...

Wow.

So if they were boring as batshit but stupidly attractive, you'd want to date them?

God. How would that be fun?

no. because i'd have to jumpkick them upside of the face halfway through the date just to create something to alleviate my boredom... obviously personality plays a part... but to say it's the only thing is just a lie!

 

[Tulipa]

i dont know? it's not even that they have to be the "hot guy".. i just want someone i find attractive...



no. because i'd have to jumpkick them upside of the face halfway through the date just to create something to alleviate my boredom... obviously personality plays a part... but to say it's the only thing is just a lie!

Well duh.

You date someone because you're attracted to them as a whole - not just their looks or personality but a combination of everything. Your post insinuated that you held looks above personality.