gf wants to have unprotected sex (3 Viewers)

[teleopa]

Hey this is a question for the girls.

I'm with this chick and we have both had unprotected sex before. However, we have only had protected sex with each other. She said she wants to go on the pill and have unprotected sex with me. I said we should 1st go to the dr together and get an STD test done. She got pissed off and said that I had unprotected sex with a previous gf without asking that chick to get an STD test and that I had different standards for different gfs. I said i really regretted that previous incident where I had unprotected sex without STD test. She said she wont buy it and that she wants me to have unprotected sex with her without the STD test. What should I do?

 

[Kwayera]

Insist on the STD test for both of you.

 

[Guesss]

Insist on the STD test for both of you.

^^exactly, unless she has something 2 hide that is!

 

[Tulipa]

Insist on the STD test for both of you.

QFT.

Just tell her that it's better to be safe than sorry, that if she doesn't want to do it you're still getting tested anyways and if she still won't do it, then insist on condoms.

Side note: what a silly girl.

 

[whatashotbyseve]

Or dump her. What you are suggesting is entirely reasonable. Continuing your car metaphor Kwayera, you wouldn't buy a used car without having a look under the bonnet, would you?

 

[teleopa]

Is that a fair criticism that I have different standards for different girlfriends? I had unprotected sex without STD test for a previous one, but not her?

 

[Iron]

ew she's crawlin wif somepin

 

[Tulipa]

Is that a fair criticism that I have different standards for different girlfriends? I had unprotected sex without STD test for a previous one, but not her?

Do you see it as having different standards? It sounds like you regretted doing it before, so why make the same mistake twice?

 

[Bainesy]

just tell her:

"I want to make sure that my AIDS has gone away before I have sex again. I got if from my last gf and she said it goes away after 6 months, but its only been 5 and a half so I want to check to be sure"

 

[Kwayera]

Is that a fair criticism that I have different standards for different girlfriends? I had unprotected sex without STD test for a previous one, but not her?

Just say you've grown up and realised the risks involved in unprotected sex without knowing the relevant medical history of your partner.

 

[whatashotbyseve]

ew she's crawlin wif somepin

Too bad the Pope doesn't agree with contraception!

 

[Iron]

Too bad the Pope doesn't agree with contraception!

Fuck off with the following of me and the lame shots at my faith, mediocre cunt

 

[whatashotbyseve]

Lolwut? In both of the threads in question I posted first. It is only natural that I have some passing interest in returning to them. I find your dedication to faith quite noble, even if I will never understand it.

 

[Iron]

Theyre just boring and stupid comments dude, as if you cant grasp that Catholics stand against both condoms and promiscuity

 

[kb-24]

She has aids and she doesn't want to die by herself.

 

[Sarah182]

Maybe she should enlighten this chick to exactly what she is saying: "lets just fuck now, worry about the AIDS when they come!"

 

[filofr3ak]

dont worry until theres something to worry about

lol

 

[Sarah182]

dont worry until theres something to worry about

lol

epic fail

 

[Crestwood's_G]

Hey this is a question for the girls.

I'm with this chick and we have both had unprotected sex before. However, we have only had protected sex with each other. She said she wants to go on the pill and have unprotected sex with me. I said we should 1st go to the dr together and get an STD test done. She got pissed off and said that I had unprotected sex with a previous gf without asking that chick to get an STD test and that I had different standards for different gfs. I said i really regretted that previous incident where I had unprotected sex without STD test. She said she wont buy it and that she wants me to have unprotected sex with her without the STD test. What should I do?

have u got a rash?

 

[Serius]

Is this a common thing? ive never done it but i wouldnt be offended if a partner asked me to. Also some friends have been asked to get tested and they felt like they were accused of being a slut or diseased or having poor judgement or something, but did it anyway.